By: Jomzie Daluz
As those grief-stricken people say, there is no such thing as happy ending. Well if it exists, it is not that easy to achieve. Anyway, we are given a chance to move on so why not use that chance?
It is no taboo to cry whenever you are plunked into the heartbreak turf. But keeping on being a drama queen and feeling so bitter for a month, a year or so because you keep on dwelling on silly, bittersweet memories together with your cerebrally challenged ex is definitely the densest thing about you.
Girls, it is not yet the end of the world (Mayans got so wrong about their prediction, right?). It is basic knowledge that a relationship won’t work if the pretty girl and the bad boy won’t get along anymore. So stop analyzing why you two are over and just better run your life with a boatload of positivity.
Take a bath. Dress up. Eat.
The major ticket on returning back to the happy zone is you. Freshen up, peel off the right and comfiest clothes you have inside your closet and don’t limit your appetite with daily dose of healthy goodies.
I swear you wouldn’t like it if you will see your awful self in the mirror. You would probably end up loathing yourself and get even more depressed. Yikes.
Get your books and read.
It really pays to be street smart.
For the months that you had spent being melancholic, it is no question that you missed a lot in school. Don’t let that heartbreak be a hindrance in reaching your goals. Pound it up by studying more. Come to think of the whole situation wherein you are very much aggravated. Would you like to drown yourself even more because you are neglecting your academics? Please, don’t. You surely won’t like to be branded as a complete package of a loser.
Start to craft your own blog.
Yay! This one is quite exciting since creating a blog is a bit of a challenge thing. There you can encounter people from around the globe and then share experiences in life. Indulging to web logging is a good instrument wherein you can pour out all your frustrations in your page and also seek inspirational stuffs to make yourself better.
Treat yourself with a happy hang-out with your ‘true friends’.
Spending time with your best buds is a great idea. It’s refreshing. You might hate them for their pranks and bunches of frank advice, but try to look on the bright side. Are they doing it to mess up your life? The answer is no. To top it all, your friends are there to assure you that you are not alone.
Nurture the children-parent relationship
Never stop cultivating the relationship you have with your parents instead of craving to have your ex back. Just like your friends, your mom and dad too can be your BFF and your confidant. Don’t be afraid to tell them all the things bothering inside your heart. Remember that you came from them and they know everything what is best for you.
Thank God for everything
Uttering your gratitude to God isn’t so much work to do. It’s just that people often forget to do this due to a thick pile of work and the incessant attack of dilemmas. And if we do talk to Him, we frequently mutter complains rather than thanking. Remember that God knows all your needs and He loves you for eternity. Now wake up, utter your gratitude and make your day worthwhile with Him.
THESE are just few hints to heal your wounded heart. In fact, there’s a lot more. Happy endings do exist but it’s more likely to happen if we have to wait and be shrewd more about life. Just believe that you will someday meet the guy whom you wanted to spend the rest of your life forever.
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